Why do we bother? Two people argue and no matter what happens, neither of them actually win. Either the relationship ends or it doesn’t end. Just decide this one simple fact straight away and then cut the bullshit. Don’t bother saying all those things you don’t mean but can’t ever take back. Don’t bother lying to them and in the process, yourself. Just be honest. When you can sense an argument starting the first thing you should say is, “Do you actually want this to work?” If the answer’s no then goodbye! See you later! Thanks for playing! If the answer’s yes then sit down, talk about it and move on. Arguments solve nothing.